skills that enable people to communicate effectively with one another. Effective communication involves the choice of the best communications channel for a specific purpose, the...
When in conflict with a partner, people need to have the full capacity of their minds to deal rationally and lovingly with the situation. Yet the moment one becomes afraid, some of the blood leaves their brain, they cannot think as well, and they automatically go into fight or flight....
People are anxious when they recall past quarrels and disagreements that resulted in personal injury, either physical or emotional. People remember feeling frightened, defeated and powerless. To avoid repeating the experience, one can become passive, agreeable or accepting. One may withdraw from the situation, believing the problem will be solved...
Going to court is becoming increasingly costly and often futile. Parties and individuals in conflict are therefore turning to alternative methods of dispute resolution - mediation and arbitration being two options. One must negotiate their way from confrontation to cooperation. In this paper the author explains some secrets to successful...
A person will find himself at odds with one of his colleagues at work and he will want to make the best of a difficult situation. What should the person do? The author asks the person to look deep within himself and ask the following question: "What is the worst...
While there are some couples that just naturally see things the same way, most people have a really hard time seeing things through the other person's eyes. What often happens when they "Communicate" is that each person tries to get the other person to see things his or her way....
If a person's child is in daycare, it's likely that the person will eventually disagree with something the childcare provider does or says. Recognizing when to say something, and how to approach the subject with the provider, will help maintain a positive relationship between the person and the childcare provider...
It goes by many names - conflict prevention, conflict resolution, conflict management, the names go on. These terms were all created to combat a similar problem. For the most part, people who deal with these issues all agree with the same principle: Conflict resolution at an early stage is less...
The key to proper resolution of inevitable conflicts is having a set of rules and practices to tip the momentum of conflicts toward a mutually beneficial resolution. The place to start when implementing meaningful conflict resolution is with the individual. Each individual is always first responsible for the way they...
In every interpersonal conflict both sides wind up wounded, albeit one side perhaps more than the other. Whenever a person feels that he must be wrong in order for the author to be right, one invariably denigrate not only the other person's point of view, but their overall character as...
Surprisingly for most people, is that one of the reasons many attempts at conflict resolution fail is the desire to keep emotion out of the equation. People will look at content and make a decision on how to proceed with the conflict but want to disregard emotions. However, how people...
Having experienced more than his fair share of conflict over the years, from street fighting to more sophisticated law cases, the author has become an avid student of the subject of Conflict Resolution. His bookshelves are full of literature on the topic and the public library even thought of charging...
Surprisingly for most people, is that one of the reasons many attempts at conflict resolution fail is the desire to keep emotion out of the equation. People will look at content and make a decision on how to proceed with the conflict but want to disregard emotions. However, how people...
Teaching kids to deal with conflict effectively and peacefully is perhaps the biggest challenge facing adults today. Children's disagreements both at home and at school can be noisy, physical and psychologically hurtful. The approach to conflict resolution learned and practised in childhood often stays for life. Conflict is part of...
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